There are times in everybody’s life that we may suffer from little or no confidence. For some it can last for a few hours or days, while for others it can last for years and seem never ending. None of us are infallible and while the super confident seem just that, when life decides to take its course and deal us with a cruel twist of fate, even the most confident among us will feel some pain.
In most cases, it is not what happens to us as a result of little or no confidence, it is how we react to it that is going to prove to us that it doesn’t have to last forever. Don’t get me wrong, there are events in life that are hard to get over, but in time we have to try and must move on. We are built to cope with all eventualities, whether they be joyful or tragic.
We must always look to hope and a new tomorrow ultimately brings this. There are those among us who live in a life of despair and choose to do so, with little reason for it and there are people that are really hurting inside but make the decision to not let their feelings get in the way of life. While in both situations, there is a definite lack of little or no confidence, their attitudes are very different.
They are both deluding themselves and need to face up to their own personal situation. One is happy to live with the pretense of having little or no confidence, while the other is hiding their lack of little or no confidence, because they don’t want to face up to the hurt they are really feeling. In both cases, they have to face up to what makes them feel how they do and remedy the situation.
A good way to do this is get two pieces of paper, on one of them write down all the things that you are grateful for and want as a part of your life. Put it somewhere where you will see it everyday! On the other piece of paper, write down all the things that make you unhappy about your life and write down the mistakes and hurt that have happened in your life. Now scrunch it up and throw this piece of paper away! This is a statement of intent that you are letting go and what is in the past, stays in the past.
Now look forward to tomorrow and realize that little or no confidence doesn’t have to last forever.
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